Be different of be poor

In order to be irreplaceable one must always be different.

Coco Chanel 

Strategy is about making choices, trade-offs; it's about deliberately choosing to be different.

Michael Porter

I want to be different. If everyone is wearing black, I want to be wearing red.

Maria Sharapova

Of course when we put our kids in the same schools with thousand of other kids where they are expected to do the same things and behave in the same way they tend to be similar to the other kids and of course easily replaceble